:) Traditii de Anul Nou:)

Scumpilor ca sa stie toata lumea de ce anume se cumpara vasc am sa fac un pic de lumina 🙂 pentru toata lumea:)

Povestea vascului

Vascul era planta sacra a zeitei Frigga. Aceasta era zeita dragostei si mama lui Balder, zeul soarelui de vara. Balder a avut un vis care prevestea moartea. Frigga a fost foarte speriata de acest vis al fiului sau. Daca Balder ar fi murit, toata viata de pe Pamant ar fi disparut. Balder nu putea fi ranit de nicio fiinta de pe pamant. El avea insa un dusman de moarte, pe Loki, zeul raului. Loki stia de o planta care nu era de pe pamant si care crestea in meri si stejari. Aceasta planta era vascul.

Loki confectioneaza o sulita din vasc pe care i-o da zeului iernii, Hoder. Acesta era orb si il loveste din greseala cu vascul pe Balder care moare. Timp de trei zile fiecare element al universului a incercat sa il readuca la viata pe Balder. Frigga, mama sa, a reusit pana la urma sa il invie. Se spune ca lacrimile pe care le-a varsat pentru fiul sau s-au transformat in bobitele albe ale vascului. In ziua in care fiul sau a reinviat, Frigga i-a imbratisat si i-a sarutat pe toti cei care treceu pe sub vascul care facuse bobitele albe. De atunci a ramas scris ca cei care se aflau sub vasc sa nu isi faca nici un rau si sa se sarute.”

Sarutul de sub vasc

Sarutul sub vasc este asociat pentru prima oara cu festivitatile organizate de greci cu ocazia Saturnaliilor iar mai tarziu cu traditiile primitive legate de casatorie. Acest obicei isi avea originile in mai multe credinte. Una dintre aceastea era aceea ca vascul era un leac pentru fertilitate. De Craciun, fiecare fata care statea sub coronita de vasc nu putea refuza sarutul. Acesta putea insemna iubire, prietenie sau noroc. Daca fata ramanea nesarutata avea ghinion in dragoste in anul urmator si nu se casatorea.

Obiceiul mai spunea ca de fiecare data cand un barbat saruta o fata, trebuia sa rupa si una dintre bobitele albe ale vascului. Dupa ce toate bobitele au fost rupte nimeni nu se mai saruta sub coronita de vasc.

Chiar daca semnificatia stramosilor a fost uitata, obiceiul sarutului sub vasc este un obicei pastrat in multe tari. Daca un cuplu indragostit se saruta sub vasc inseamna ca vor avea o relatie lunga si fericita. In Franta, acest obicei se practica in ziua de Anul Nou.”
Si mai sunt dar eu nu stiam de vasc si ma interesa:)

Anunțuri

La multi ani mai dragilor :P

In fiecare sf de an scriu despre ceea ce am realizat anu asta si ceea ce vreau sa realizez in anul urmator …. dar sfarsitul asta de an m-a gasit cu un chef de schimbare …. prima ar fi ca anul nou ma prinde acasa 🙂 apoi cu prietenii…si am dor dinala de a sta tolanita in pat cu un pahar de vin rosu 🙂 ce seara nu?
Ehh ha nu vreau sa sperii pe nimeni … anu asta a fost un an extraordinar …am invatat atatea .. ca ma intreb ce mai am de invatat in 2012 serios?:)) .. si stiti ce imi place la 2011?….ca trece :)) vine altu … si apoi altu si tot asa :)) si viata’i frumoasa chiar daca uneori noi nu o vedem asa 🙂 da .. inca n-am aflat ce e dragostea :)) dar anu asta m-am eliberat de trecut si de tot ceea ce inseama el in viata mea… si ce pot spune sunt mai rea :))) si in 2012 si mai rea :)) (HEI glumeam sunt buna ce Dumnezeu)…… n-am regrete … deci 2011 a meritat serios .. acuma ca am rezolvat orice alta neintelegere pe care as fi avut’o cu oricare dintre persoanele pe care care le cunosc si chiar si cu mine inasami , am rezolvat anu asta….. orice neglaritate a fost lamurita 🙂 si orice drum a fost inceput 🙂
In 2012 incep o calatorie superba …. cu cine? nu stiu ….dar stiu ce voi face si asta e bn 🙂
Noi oamenii suntem foarte „nestationari” ca sa zc asa ;))… serios… nu suntem ca un curent ce circula in regin stationar :)) la noi liniile de curent sunt deschise 🙂 ne prierdem in detalii … in legende … serios .. care e faza cu vascul? sincer nimeni nu stie .. dar toti cumpara vasc :)) daca intrebi dc cumpara vasc… n-ai sa intalnesti un raspuns comun :)) si faza cu sarutatul sub vasc nici aia nush ce inseamna sau care e treaba cu ea :)) chestia e ca niciodata n-am avut pe nimeni de sarbatori so…. care e treaba :)) in fine …de ce vorbeam… a da de oamenii in general 🙂
Nu inteleg toata treaba cu petardele serios .. inca de la Craciun auzi pocnituri si zgomote serios .. pana in noaptea de REvelion esti deja satul de zgomote :)) ma intreb oare nu or sa ramana fara ?
In fine trecem peste…. abea anu asta ce-am primit un grup de colindatori claumea ….. restu nimic serios… si asta e ca am avut noroc ca au venit macar ei ca altfel :)) ciuciu colinde 🙂 trecem peste asta …
In alta ordine de idei … toate persoanele au un regret de la 2011 care ar fi ala … acum detaliez 😛 :
„pers1: n am reusit sa fac nicio fata sa ma iubeasca
pers2: dar tot sg sunt
pers3: regret k nu am gasit o fata kre sa tina la mn si sa ma respecte pt ceea c sunt
pers3: si sa nu incerce sa ma schimbe ”
E cam foarte clar unde vreau sa bat … toti au un regret in 2011 …. ca nu am gasit pe cineva .. dar oare au incercat ei sa aibe pe cineva…? eu una recunosc am incercat dar nu a mers … eu sunt dificila … dar na in 2012 imi pun lenjerie rosie :))) alta prostie cu lenjeria rosie :)) sau mai e una sa-ti pui bani :)) porcarii:))
Toti le considerati asa dar toti va puneti vasc , lenjerie rosie , bani si aruncati petarde odata cu 1 Decembrie pana la sf lui Ianuarie :))
Ce sa mai noi oamenii suntem clar in regim nestationar:)) cu linii de curent extrem de deschise :)) pacat ca mintea ne e inchisa 🙂
In 2012 va doresc tuturor sa va deschideti larg mintile … sa indrazniti sa visati mai mult , sa aveti teluri si idealuri…si sa va chinuiti din tot sufletul vostru sa vi le impliniti , sa aveti multa sanatate si mai ales curaj 🙂 sa realizati tot ceea ce vrei si sa va ajute Dumnezeu in fiecare clipa 🙂 V-am pupat:*

I have learned…

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do but to the best you can do.

I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people that’s important. It’s what they do about it.

I’ve learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.

I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned that it’s a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.

I’ve learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I’m forced to choose sides even when I don’t want to.

I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I’ve learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.

I’ve learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.

I’ve learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I’ve learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

I’ve learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned that although the word „love” can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.

I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe.

A te indragostii sau a murii ….

Aceasta e intrebarea….. intrebarea de azi …
MUlti dintre noi se indragostesc dar cati ajunga intradevar sa iubeasca?… si aici ma refer la iubirea adevarata… aia sincera care ne face pe toti sa ne pierdem capu… a?…. asta nush e o intrebare la care inca nu am gasit raspunsul.. nici macar la mine…
Da ne indragostim… apoi ne obisnuim si cautam altceva … lucru care ne duce la o concluzie … „NU iubim” ci ne indragostim apoi ne trece…ce’i asta ?
DAr pentru ca inca nu pot da un raspuns.. si pentru ca nu ma simt inca in stare sa filozofesc prea mult pe tema asta am sa fabulez un pic si asa nu am facut asta de ceva vreme 😛

” Croncane ciorile in spre orash in stoluri zburatoare , incep curand ninsorile …. decembrie ma infioara….iar tu incremenesti privind inapoi… trecutu’i nesfarsit se pare, nebun ce esti , pe ierni sa fugi in lume … ratacit…
Palid poposesti la drum ….pe drumul iernii blestemat , asemeni unui fum privind mereu spre cerul inghetat ..
Am sa te las sa pleci… sa zbori .. ca o pasare … sa’ti pierzi tu inima in sloiuri si in gand rau…dar n-am sa uit nicicand trecutul nesfarsit ce ne inconjoara…”

„I-uşor s-ajungi, cînd nu ştii unde pleci?
Şi cînd ajungi, eşti gata de plecare?

Renaşte rîul chiar în timp ce-n mare
Termină ale sale unde reci;

Tot ce-i pribeag se-ntoarnă iar, şi deci
Şi spiritul se-ntoarnă spre izvoare…
Şi pentru ce? E crunta întrebare
La care n-om răspunde poate-n veci.

I-am întrebat pe Hegel şi pe Nietzsche,
Pe Russell şi pe Kant… Niciun răspuns.
Dario-mi zise: „Piatra e ferice”.

Deşteaptă-mă deci tu din nepătruns,
Cînd, drag ortac de drum şi bun complice,
La capăt de poem vom fi ajuns.”